Dear Family, Loved Ones, Friends, and other people my email list:
Well, things wrapped up very quickly in good ol' Astrakhan. We meet at the airport at 12:30 tomorrow and we're off to Petersburg! Yes, that's right...the Astrakhan Airport is now open. No eight hour bus ride to Volgograd, thankfully. My host mom and little brother left on Tuesday for a neighboring town, so that I was the last time I will see them--I was really disappointed because I thought she said she was leaving on Thursday...or I thought that the word for Tuesday was the word for Thursday...whatever the case, it was surprising and sad to have them leave so soon.
On Thursday we had six exams and my results actually show vast improvement! There are rumors of inflated grades, but I like to think that I've learned a lot. I know that my ability to speak has greatly improved (pretty much went from zero to about 50%) and I understand a great deal of what people say. I'm well on my way to speaking Russian slightly better than completely awful. Go me!
On Thursday night we had our "graduation" evening which was a big dinner with entertainment and a short ceremony where we received our certificates from the rektor (president) of the university. I was terrified to find out that I was part of the entertainment. I thought that the dance club was just for fun, but apparently in Russia fun is defined as dancing in front of every person you've ever met in a foreign country. I had to wear the Russian national costume, which was fun and dance while people ate, which was not fun. Natasha came and took pictures and a video of the dance (which no one will ever see). It was a fun evening and a perfect finale to the previous seven weeks...and then we had six hours of class the next day.
A lot of people in the program are really excited to leave Astrakhan, but I'm pretty sad. I've learned a lot here--not just the Russian language and about life in Russia, but also about myself. When I first got here I was too afraid to speak because I didn't want to make mistakes--pretty ridiculous, because if I kept that mentality I would never ever speak Russian. Even Russians speak Russian wrong; it's a hard language! Also, I've never really fancied myself as much of an outdoors person, but Russians love being outdoors and I've grown to like it as well. Beats sitting in class all day. Maybe I'll even go camping someday in the very distant future. I've tried a lot of things and done a lot things that I would have been too self-conscious to try in America and I realize now more than ever that life's too short to wait for second chances.
Much of my life here has definitely been an "America Appreciation Tour." When I ran out of contact solution I was shocked to find out that there was exactly one store in the entire Astrakhan Oblast' (500,000 people) that sold it. One! In America, I can walk across the street to the grocery store and buy pretty much anything I'd like! Also...the whole toilet paper thing...seriously. We asked our teacher why none of the bathrooms have toilet paper or hand soap and she assured us that they do in the rest of Russia, just not Astrakhan. Whatever, I've been in Petersburg. It's not true.
There are definitely things about Russia that I will miss. I'll miss having my bus stop two or three times on the way to an excursion or lecture because of cows crossing (or just standing) in the middle of the road. And I really wish I could bring the Marshrukta system to America--if only Seattle bus drivers would cut into oncoming traffic in order to bypass long lines at a stop light (or through parking lots or drive on the sidewalk)! Then I wouldn't complain about how long it takes to get somewhere--at least I'd know they were making an effort!
I'll miss the dramatic flair of the Russian people I've met. Last night I went "pogulyating" with Natasha (an americanization of the Russian term pogulyat': to walk), which is the Russian term for Russian nightlife. It basically involves walking around the city to different cafes or clubs or just around a specific area of the city and talking with people (or for some groups, drinking lots of vodka). I met three of the whitest gangsta-wannabes I've ever seen in my life. One of them spoke a little English and proceeded to profess (in a mixture of Russian and English) his undying love for the Russian author Bulgakov and promised to give me a beautiful copy of it...all while flashing his bling (a HUGE diamond bracelet and belt buckle). Talk about paradox! The other one's English was limited to quoting American rap lyrics and kept asking me if I liked various rap artists and became really sad when I kept saying said nyet. The third one asked me to teach him more American swear words because he, sadly, only knew three.
I'll also miss the Russian ideas about health and what can make you sick. I really don't understand it but it's been a constant source of amusement. Maria Leonedovna, our reading teacher, told us on our last day of class that she just didn't understand why we all drank so much water: "You all come from different states and you didn't know each other before this, but you all drink a lot of water. Cold water, too!" We tried to explain that it's good to drink a lot of water and asked her what was wrong with cold water...she proceeded to explain that if you drink cold water, your throat will get very sick. We replied that we always drank cold water in America. "And your throats aren't sick?!" she gasped.
Everyday has been pretty amazing--even if it was hard or frustrating or simply awful--and I am very grateful for everything I've experienced and learned about myself and life in general. One of my teachers (in America) told me that going to Russia either cures or worsens your love for it; at this point I know that I really want to continue learning Russian and get back here somehow. But I also know that I cannot wait to sleep in a real bed or eat good, non-Russian food. Laura, stock up on guacamole!!!
I might have time to write a letter in Petersburg, but we have absolutely no idea about what we're doing there or where we're staying; you know, anything that might be useful. But don't miss me too much; I'm coming home in less than five days. Ura!
Yours truly,
Maria Adelina Mammina
PS: You know, I've taken over 2000 photos. По-моэму, that's quite a bit.
Well, things wrapped up very quickly in good ol' Astrakhan. We meet at the airport at 12:30 tomorrow and we're off to Petersburg! Yes, that's right...the Astrakhan Airport is now open. No eight hour bus ride to Volgograd, thankfully. My host mom and little brother left on Tuesday for a neighboring town, so that I was the last time I will see them--I was really disappointed because I thought she said she was leaving on Thursday...or I thought that the word for Tuesday was the word for Thursday...whatever the case, it was surprising and sad to have them leave so soon.
On Thursday we had six exams and my results actually show vast improvement! There are rumors of inflated grades, but I like to think that I've learned a lot. I know that my ability to speak has greatly improved (pretty much went from zero to about 50%) and I understand a great deal of what people say. I'm well on my way to speaking Russian slightly better than completely awful. Go me!
On Thursday night we had our "graduation" evening which was a big dinner with entertainment and a short ceremony where we received our certificates from the rektor (president) of the university. I was terrified to find out that I was part of the entertainment. I thought that the dance club was just for fun, but apparently in Russia fun is defined as dancing in front of every person you've ever met in a foreign country. I had to wear the Russian national costume, which was fun and dance while people ate, which was not fun. Natasha came and took pictures and a video of the dance (which no one will ever see). It was a fun evening and a perfect finale to the previous seven weeks...and then we had six hours of class the next day.
A lot of people in the program are really excited to leave Astrakhan, but I'm pretty sad. I've learned a lot here--not just the Russian language and about life in Russia, but also about myself. When I first got here I was too afraid to speak because I didn't want to make mistakes--pretty ridiculous, because if I kept that mentality I would never ever speak Russian. Even Russians speak Russian wrong; it's a hard language! Also, I've never really fancied myself as much of an outdoors person, but Russians love being outdoors and I've grown to like it as well. Beats sitting in class all day. Maybe I'll even go camping someday in the very distant future. I've tried a lot of things and done a lot things that I would have been too self-conscious to try in America and I realize now more than ever that life's too short to wait for second chances.
Much of my life here has definitely been an "America Appreciation Tour." When I ran out of contact solution I was shocked to find out that there was exactly one store in the entire Astrakhan Oblast' (500,000 people) that sold it. One! In America, I can walk across the street to the grocery store and buy pretty much anything I'd like! Also...the whole toilet paper thing...seriously. We asked our teacher why none of the bathrooms have toilet paper or hand soap and she assured us that they do in the rest of Russia, just not Astrakhan. Whatever, I've been in Petersburg. It's not true.
There are definitely things about Russia that I will miss. I'll miss having my bus stop two or three times on the way to an excursion or lecture because of cows crossing (or just standing) in the middle of the road. And I really wish I could bring the Marshrukta system to America--if only Seattle bus drivers would cut into oncoming traffic in order to bypass long lines at a stop light (or through parking lots or drive on the sidewalk)! Then I wouldn't complain about how long it takes to get somewhere--at least I'd know they were making an effort!
I'll miss the dramatic flair of the Russian people I've met. Last night I went "pogulyating" with Natasha (an americanization of the Russian term pogulyat': to walk), which is the Russian term for Russian nightlife. It basically involves walking around the city to different cafes or clubs or just around a specific area of the city and talking with people (or for some groups, drinking lots of vodka). I met three of the whitest gangsta-wannabes I've ever seen in my life. One of them spoke a little English and proceeded to profess (in a mixture of Russian and English) his undying love for the Russian author Bulgakov and promised to give me a beautiful copy of it...all while flashing his bling (a HUGE diamond bracelet and belt buckle). Talk about paradox! The other one's English was limited to quoting American rap lyrics and kept asking me if I liked various rap artists and became really sad when I kept saying said nyet. The third one asked me to teach him more American swear words because he, sadly, only knew three.
I'll also miss the Russian ideas about health and what can make you sick. I really don't understand it but it's been a constant source of amusement. Maria Leonedovna, our reading teacher, told us on our last day of class that she just didn't understand why we all drank so much water: "You all come from different states and you didn't know each other before this, but you all drink a lot of water. Cold water, too!" We tried to explain that it's good to drink a lot of water and asked her what was wrong with cold water...she proceeded to explain that if you drink cold water, your throat will get very sick. We replied that we always drank cold water in America. "And your throats aren't sick?!" she gasped.
Everyday has been pretty amazing--even if it was hard or frustrating or simply awful--and I am very grateful for everything I've experienced and learned about myself and life in general. One of my teachers (in America) told me that going to Russia either cures or worsens your love for it; at this point I know that I really want to continue learning Russian and get back here somehow. But I also know that I cannot wait to sleep in a real bed or eat good, non-Russian food. Laura, stock up on guacamole!!!
I might have time to write a letter in Petersburg, but we have absolutely no idea about what we're doing there or where we're staying; you know, anything that might be useful. But don't miss me too much; I'm coming home in less than five days. Ura!
Yours truly,
Maria Adelina Mammina
PS: You know, I've taken over 2000 photos. По-моэму, that's quite a bit.